Get to know the family:
close family and extended family among others
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Family is a universal topic of conversation. It may not be what you are going to talk about the minute in which you are first introduced to someone, but it will not take long before you end up sharing stories that include members of your family or listening to stories about other people’s families. In addition to hearing about someone else’s family, you may be invited to meet them. This is why family members are a basic theme when learning English.
Let’s see the vocabulary you will need to know about family members.
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The Immediate Family
This generally refers to the people in your family with whom you share your home. Let’s take a look at who these people could be:
And how could you use this vocabulary in a conversation?
I live with my parents, my oldest brother and one of my sisters. I have four other siblings. Sometimes I wish I was an only child!
My wife has a daughter and a son, but I don’t have any children of my own.
The Extended Family
Here we extend a little beyond our own home to embrace the other members of our family with whom we share blood ties. So, we add:
- Great-grandmother, great-grandfather
- Grandmother, grandfather
- Grandson, granddaughter
- Second cousin
Let’s look at how you could include these members of the family in conversation:
I never met my great grandparents, but when I was a child I had a very close relationship with both my grandmothers. I used to go to visit my grandparents on my mother’s side every day after school.
I have one aunt and two cousins on my mother’s side. My father is an only child, so I don’t have aunts or uncles on his side.
It is important to keep in mind that there are contexts in which we must use more formal terms to talk about our families. Those are the words which we have seen in the previous two sections. There are, however, situations which allow us to use a more informal and relaxed register. In these cases, we could say:
- Mum, mommy, mom
- Dad, daddy, pa
- Grandma, gran, nana, nan
- Granddad, grandpa, gramps
Can I spend the night at gramps’ house, mum? I haven’t seen him or grandma in ages!
The Assembled Family
This is where we find a group of people who can be as much part of the immediate family as of the extended family, even though we do not share blood ties. These are not members of the political family. This is where we will find the stepfamily (adoptive family). The vocabulary for these family members is very easy, since it is the same as that which is used for the immediate and extended family which we saw above, only adding the prefix step- to each member. Let’s see some examples:
In the case of sister and brother, the prefix Half- is also used to refer to a sibling with whom you share one parent.
Let’s see some examples to make this clearer:
When I was ten my mother got married to a man who had a daughter and a son, so now I have a father, a stepfather, a half-sister and a half-brother.
As we did when forming the names of the members of the adoptive family, to talk about our political family we use the vocabulary terms that we already know and add the suffix -in-law. Then we will have:
We’ll be spending this Christmas at my in-laws in Alabama. My sister-in-law and my brothers-in-law are all going with their children. It’s going to be a really big table!
Getting to Know Your In-Laws
The moment has finally come, we are going to meet our in-laws. Since we definitely want to make a good impression, it is good to greet them and to converse in their language. Let’s look at some possible ways to start a conversation:
- Good afternoon, it’s lovely to meet you!
- You have a beautiful home!
- Mary tells me you’re a keen tennis player.
- Thanks for a lovely dinner. I had a great time and I’m looking forward to seeing you again soon.
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How to Describe Family Connections
- You can do it directly:
Carlos is my uncle.
Mark is my oldest brother.
- Another way to describe a familial link is by using an apostrophe + s. This combination is used to indicate possession in English.
Richard is my father’s brother.
Geena is my brother-in-law’s daughter.
Mike lives near my sister’s stepfather.
- The link becomes a little more complicated to decipher when you add an apostrophe to two consecutive words, for example:
Tim’s brother’s brother-in-law bought a new boat.
Janet’s sister’s husband was sick yesterday.
Sabrina’s brother’s son has lots of toys.
Tips about family members in English
Keep in mind the following advice when you describe your family:
- If you want to talk about your brothers and sisters, that is, both men and women, use the word siblings.
- To talk about both your mom and your dad, use the expression parents.
- To talk about marriage, you can say “Lisa and John got married in 1991,” or “Lisa and John married in 1991.” The expression married without got is more formal. Also, avoid saying “Lisa got married with Mark.” It’s better to say “Lisa got married to Mark.”
Exercises about family members
Are you familiar with riddles? Show what you’ve learned by solving the following riddles:
- Who is my sister’s husband’s daughter?
- Andrew lives with two women: Erika and Natasha. Erika is his daughter’s mom and Natasha is his wife’s daughter. Who are these women?
- Who is my father’s father’s grandson?
- There are three apples, two fathers, and two sons. How do you distribute the apples giving each person one apple?
- My niece
- Erika is Andrew’s wife and Natasha is Andrew’s daughter
- It is myself.
- There are three people, all related to each other: the grandfather, the father and the son.